@contrapunctus not sure about others but I definitely found you to be a cool and chill person when I met you a month ago but I can totally relate to your experience. I had the same problem and honestly I kind of stopped bothering about getting attention and ironically it made me more noticeable among people. I got a lot of flirts and compliments in the last few months and I’ve never been complimented anything like that in my life. Human psychology is weird honestly.